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Coastal Virginia Mother's Day Gift Guide
Looking for Mother's Day gift inspiration for the special moms in your life? Check out these ten local small businesses and makers in the Coastal Virginia region.
1. Split Rock Art & Design
Beautiful works of art for interior spaces
“I anticipate these products finding a meaningful place in your home and being a catalyst of inspiration and hope.”
Jonathan representation of the natural world is captivating and enchanting. I have multiple pieces of his artwork and often pause to appreciate them, discovering new details each time.
You can browse his shop for the perfect heirloom gift for Mother’s Day at splitrockart.com or catch him at the Old Beach Art & Eco Market on Saturdays.
2. Cocoa Nouveau
Intentionally hand-crafted chocolates & confections
Kristin's creations at Cocoa Nouveau are flawlessly crafted. Her product line is entirely gluten-free and she also provides vegan alternatives. You can place an advance order for chocolates and other goodies on her website, cocoanouveau.com, or visit her Instagram to find out her store's hours of operation!
3. The Wandering Petal
Floral & home boutique
Pre-order locally grown, stunning floral arrangements from Nicole at The Wandering Petal! You’ll find exquisite flowers like anenomes, delphinium, snapdragons, orlaya, foxglove and peonies lovingly arranged into tasteful bouquets. Head to thewanderingpetal.com to peruse her offerings and to place an order!
4. Banks & Beach
Curated gift boxes & bundles
Lauren makes giving thoughtful, luxurious gifts — effortless. We recently launched her website and she has lovely gift bundles in stock just in time for Mother’s Day! You can browse her shop at banksandbeach.com.
5. Yōō Clean
all natural cleaning & home products
If you’ve tried Mary Yoo’s products you’re likely obsessed. I know I am! My mom loves it when I gift her refills of the All Purpose Cleaner or room refresheners. View her shop at itsyooclean.com and enjoy free local delivery in Hampton Roads.
6. J Zimmer Style
Personal wardrobe styling services
“Need help finding your grove for effortless style? I can figure out your ideal look to help you show a truer, more polished you!…I can save you time and stress so you can stay busy doing what you love to do.”
If you know a mother who lacks the time or energy to curate a wardrobe that aligns with her personal style, consider gifting her a personalized styling session. Jessica is an expert in this field, and you can find out more about her offerings at jzimmerstyle.com!
7. The Industrial Cottage
homewares & custom furniture
Molly has established a store brimming with one-of-a-kind and charming home products, making it an ideal location for constructing a basket of gifts! You can visit her store in Norfolk or visit theindustrialcottage.com to purchase a gift card or an item to gift.
8. Graze Kitchen
the best food at the northend
Shelley has created a delectable array of locally-sourced dishes. The café's homemade dressings and sauces are unparalleled, and I cannot emphasize enough how much I recommend it. The beautiful view, mouth-watering food, and serene atmosphere make it the ideal location for a Mother's Day brunch. To peruse their menu or purchase an electronic gift card, go to grazekitchenvb.com.
9. The Pinner House
A boutique bed & breakfast located in the Historic Downtown Suffolk
Whether it's their lavish chambers in the main building or their charming cottages, The Pinner House provides an ideal setting for some much-needed repose and unwinding. If you're looking for a gift for a mother who could use a staycation, reserve a stay at thepinnerhouse.com. Additionally, their new café, Café Dâvina, opens this Saturday, and their crepes and coffee are beyond compare!
10. Natsa Jewelry
chic jewelry
Nat has assembled a timeless line of exquisite rings, earrings, ear cuffs, necklaces, and bracelets. Her pieces are fashioned from gold, rose gold vermeil, and sterling silver, and are suitable for sensitive skin. Visit her website at natsajewelry.com to discover her offerings and gift a mother in your life with jewelry that she will cherish forever!
I hope this page has helped you discovered a wonderful gift for the special mothers in your life! If you're interested in exploring additional fantastic small businesses to support, please visit my directory for Coastal Virginia Small Business Shopping, listed below!
Cheers,
EBC
11 Remote Work Spots in Virginia Beach
Looking for inspiration for where to hunker down in Virginia Beach and get work done or even read a good book? Check out the places below!
*If you’re working from a coffee shop, café, or some other similar establishment, mind your etiquette and read the room. Are there only two tables in the space? Is it more like a restaurant where you should eat and leave? Then it might not be best to set up shop and hog a table for half a day.
“Always fresh. Always memorable.”
Lots of seating
Big windows with natural lighting
Friendly staff
Free wifi
Delicious food & coffee
Consistently clean environment
My go-to order: Top of the Hill Sandwich on gluten-free bread with a lime Crunchy Hydration water or iced coffee
Note: Closed on Mondays!
2. Fruitive - Hilltop
“Plant-based. Simple. Beautiful.”
Tons of seating: booth, comfy chairs, & café chairs
Free wifi & lots of outlets to charge laptops
Delicious, organic, plant-based foods & beverages
Great natural lighting
Consistently clean environment
Indoor & outdoor seating
My go-to order: 24oz Wellness Warrior w/ almond butter added
3. VLOVE
“A beach coffee dream.”
Lots of windows with natural lighting
Delicious coffee & food
Great spot for people-watching!
Beautiful minimal esthetic
Walking distance to the beach
My go-to order: Vanilla latte w/ oat milk or fresh squeezed lemonade
4. Astraea Coffee
“Liberty. Justice. Coffee for all.”
Free wifi
Great staff
Delicious coffee & food
Lots of different seating areas and nooks
Indoor & outdoor seating
Homey vibes
My go-to order: Hung Jury latte w/ oat milk
5. Three Ships Coffee - Hilltop
“A quiet repose in an otherwise not quiet part of town.”
Free wifi
Several spots to sit
Good natural lighting
Fairly quiet environment
Modern, fun interior
My go-to order: Pungo latte w/ oat milk
6. Commune
“real food unites us all.”
Lots of seating options (indoor and outdoor)
Delicious food & coffee (their homemade coffee syrups are incredible)
Good natural light
Free wifi
My go-to order: The Vedge on a crepe w/ a dulce latte
Note: Can get crowded & noisy during busy times.
7. American Brew
“Coffee, whiskey, & community.”
Free wifi
Delicious coffee & food
Lots of seating options (indoor and outdoor)
Natural lighting
My go-to order: Morning Hash Bowl w/ vanilla oat milk latte
Note: Can get crowded & noisy during busy hours. Closed on Mondays!
8. Gather VB
“Your work space is more than deadlines and coffee. It’s people, the possibilities. It’s about your productivity, your goals, your future.”
Coworking spaces
Free wifi
Private offices
Conference rooms
Podcast booths
Phone booths
Communal kitchen w/ coffee
Clean, modern esthetic
Located in Virginia Beach’s town center
Note: You can tour the space for free but membership is required to go regularly. If you get a membership, you can have access to all 7 of Gather’s locations.
9. 1701
“Cool kid’s club but for entrepreneurs.”
Coworking space with flexible memberships
Collaboration & community
Conference rooms
Fast wifi
Local coffee served
Printing
Phone booths
Indoor & outdoor workspaces
Walking distance to restaurants, coffee shops, & the beach
Note: You can tour the space for free but membership is required to go regularly.
10. Meyera E. Oberndorf Central Library
I hadn’t been to the library in a few years but stopped by the Central Library recently to renew my library card and am excited to go back and work from one of their cozy nooks!
Lots of seating options
Free wifi & lots of outlets to charge laptops
Huge collection of books & other resources
Public computers, printers, & scanners
Meeting & study rooms
Don’t need to purchase coffee, food, or memberships to work from here
Note: Bring your own coffee or snacks! Talking on the phone may not be appropriate for the common areas.
P.S. If you haven’t downloaded the Hoopla Digital App or Libby App yet they’re awesome free resources that connect with your library card!
11. TCC / City of Virginia Beach Joint-Use Library
While I didn’t like this spot quite as much as the Central Library (since it’s part of TCC, it had more academic/college vibes), it is a very nice facility with:
A ton of great seating
Huge collection of books & other resources
Free wifi
Public computers, printers, & scanners
Meeting & study rooms
Don’t need to purchase coffee, food, or memberships to work from here
Note: Bring your own coffee or snacks! Talking on the phone may not be appropriate for the common areas.
Many of us have given up the 9-5 life for the flexibility and freedom that comes with working remotely. That could mean working from your house, a local coffee shop, a co-working space, or even a hammock on a faraway exotic island (GOALS). Check out my blog post here for what to consider before working remotely.
#VAgoodness Holiday Gift Guide
A gift guide featuring women-owned micro businesses in Virginia!
the Ebc X VA Goods Holiday Gift Guide is HERE!
I think it’s important to support small businesses of all sizes but this year I wanted to highlight local women-owned micro businesses — those that operate on a very small scale as solo operations or with very few employees.
VA Goods is amazing because everything in their shop is made in Virginia with a large portion by women-owned micro businesses. Everything on this guide you can find at their shop inside Selden Market in Downtown Norfolk (208 E Main Street Suite 111 Norfolk, VA 23510). I hope this guide is helpful for checking people off your holiday shopping list!
xx,
Emily
Pssst…pay attention to the writing in bold below to catch special deals exclusive to this guide!
For the home
For the foodie
Skincare & Self-Care
Accessories
After stopping in VA Goods, check out these women owned micro businesses next door inside Selden Market!
If you purchase from VA Goods, I’d love to know what you get! Tag me in a photo or send me a DM on IG at @emilybensonconsulting.
Interested in learning more? Meet the women behind these businesses here.
Food Photography Tips & Prop Ideas
The first type of photography I learned was food photography. It also happens to be my favorite! Getting just the right angle, creatively staging the menu, and, of course, tasting the food or drinks is something I love to do. If you’re looking to take some food or drink photos, here are some tips and props I have found useful over the years:
Have a plan
It goes for any photography, but know what the images are going to be used for and plan accordingly. For example, if it’s going to be used for instagram you’ll want to make sure all the elements fit into a square. If you’re looking for a hero image for your website with text overlay, you’ll want a horizontal image with blank space in the area the text will go.
Avoid using a flash
Avoid using a flash with food photography as it can create a glare on the item. Shoot in natural light to capture the true color of the food items.
Reduce the clutter
Don’t add objects into the photo unless it serves a specific purpose. If the item is looking lonely by itself, adding the individual ingredients that go into the food item can bring a nice dynamic.
Play with the focal point
Which element in the picture do you want to pop? In the first image below I focused in on the smoothie. In the second, the ingredients.
Get the close-up shot
If you’re using the photo for social media, make sure to get some nice close-ups! From my experience, these photos get the most interaction.
Utilize motion & add a human element
Pouring a drink, cutting a cake, or reaching for a plate are easy ways to add a sense of movement to the photo. Tip: ask the model to keep moving as if they are actually eating the food, taking a drink, etc and keep snapping photos. It’ll look less staged than if they just hold a pose.
Use a Tripod
For overhead shots, use a tripod to get steady and consistent shots. Tripods are also great for capturing photos you can later turn into stop motion videos.
keep it Neutral
Use neutral backgrounds to make the colors in the food pop or for when you will need to create a graphic with text overlaid.
Get the group shots
After capturing the individual shots, I always make sure to take some group shots. There’s something a bit more interesting in seeing all the items at once versus by themselves.
I don’t use a lot of props with food photography but these are a few favorites:
Walnut Jut Board & Napkins
While I think letter boards can be tacky sometimes, I love this walnut board! It is great for when you want to add some description to a photograph. I also like using napkins as a way to incorporate texture or a pop of color to the photo. The one pictured below is made by The Indigo Tribe and is sold at KitschVA.
Newspaper, Menus & reusable straws
There’s nothing quite so nice as reading a physical newspaper. A newspaper or paper menu are easy prop ideas to add an extra element to the shot. Capturing a drink? A metal, glass or bamboo straw can make for a fun addition.
Hand carved spoon
If you need to use a spoon, make it unique! I got this hand carved spoon from a local wood worker, Nelson Wooden Boats. I use it as my daily coffee scoop but it also makes it into a lot of my photography that features dry ingredients like coffee beans or tea leaves.
Wood board
In the shot below, the wood board helps break up the white space and ground the objects. When it comes to adding materials, I love using natural woods. This particular board is from Target but I have a couple of Hill Woodwork charcuterie boards which I love to use, too.
Fresh flowers or seasonal items
Fresh flowers in the summer or items like pumpkins and pinecones in the fall can help subtly signal a seasonal menu change.
I hope you found these tips helpful! I’d love to know, which food or drink looked the tastiest to you? Comment below!
Cheers,
Emily
EBC's Small Business Holiday Gift Guide
It may seem early to be thinking about holiday shopping, but now is the time to leisurely shop and start checking people off your list!
Three cheers to all the small business owners who have weathered the storms of 2020. This holiday season support our local economy by purchasing from small businesses in Hampton Roads! There are so many great options that I had a hard time narrowing it down but here are a few of my favorites.
Under $100
Over $100
I had so many additional great suggestions that I couldn’t fit on the gift guide but wanted to give them a special mention! Make sure to check out French Twist Boutique, Jen Van Horn Health, Trish Boutique, Sprout VB, Jars of Dust, Third Born Clothing, HortiCulture Design Co., Pepper and Pink Co., Pixelated Boutique, Shop Bocu, Northend Bag Co., Smooth Downtown, Prince Ink, Chrysler Museum Shop, Be Well Boxes, Orange Sky Wellness, Read Books, Kitsch Handmade, Faithfull Lashes, The Bikini Hut, The Beauty Tree Spa, Coastal Jewelry Studio, Blossom & Bone Designs, Norfolk Candle, Method Wellness, Purely Elderberry & Wellness, Hamilton Perkins Collection, & Dirt Work Ceramics.
I hope this post was helpful for holiday gift ideas! Happy shopping!
A Tour of a Maître Chocolatier's Studio
I had the pleasure of getting a behind-the-scenes look inside Cocoa Nouveau’s “chocolate room” this past week. Not a bad way to spend a Friday morning!
Warning: blog post may cause you to crave chocolate.
Kristin Joslin, Maître Chocolatier and owner of Cocoa Nouveau, is a lover of all things chocolate. She always loved eating chocolate but it wasn't until after living in Europe and attending the Ecole Chocolat Professional School of Chocolate Arts and L’Ecole du Grand Chocolat Valrhona for Chocolate Mastery that she began crafting artisan chocolates and confections by hand.
People who make chocolate have got to be the best people in the world.
Temperature and humidity are very important in keeping the integrity of chocolate. Her “chocolate room” is air controlled to be below 70 degrees with a dehumidifier that keeps humidity below 50%.
Art Nouveau can be found throughout her workspace. It was when Kristin found the post card below in a gift shop in Europe that she knew what she wanted her business name to be…Cocoa Nouveau.
Kristin has very high standards when it comes to her chocolates. She uses small in-country fine chocolate makers whenever she can (meaning they grow and produce the chocolate themselves).
We walked through her secret garden filled with herbs and plants like ginger, figs, lavender, olive, mint, thyme, lime tree, lemon tree, and more. Kristin uses all these fresh items in her delectable chocolates and confections.
In addition to chocolate, Kristin makes marshmallows, drinking chocolate (my FAVE), chocolate dipped citrus, caramels, and baked goods.
I’ve eaten a lot of Cocoa Nouveau, but this is the first time I got to see some of the process of how they’re made. Kristin’s knowledge, attention to detail, creativity, and dedication to the best makes her products stand out from the rest.
Are you craving chocolate and confections now? Head to www.cocoanouveau.com to place an order!
Meet Glassblowing Artist & Entrepreneur, Kim McKinnis
Kim McKinnis, cofounder of For All Handkind, educator, and one of the most talented glassblowing artists in Hampton Roads, invited me to Chrysler Museum’s Glass Studio for some behind-the-scenes glassblowing.
Did you know glass starts to move and melt at 1,000 degrees?! Kim reviewed shop safety with me but, turns out, my natural instinct is to keep a safe distance from molten glass.
Glassblowing is a glass forming technique where you inflate molten glass into a bubble through a blowpipe. Pretty cool, right?
During my visit, Kim was busy testing custom holiday ornaments. From classic holiday balls to spooky bats, she can make literally anything! If you’re one of my clients, you have reason to be excited this holiday season…
Kim was working in the studio with an assistant and it was fascinating to see the two of them work and communicate speedily with non-verbal cues. Renting glass studios by the hour can be expensive, so learning to work efficiently is important.
More examples of Kim’s glass work:
Originally from Southern California, Kim fell in love with glassblowing after taking some classes in college. She went on to earn a BFA, in studio art with a concentration in glass, and an MFA, in Exhibition Design, from the California State University in Fullerton, California.
Kim moved to Norfolk, VA to participate in Chrysler Studio’s six month Assistantship Program and now teaches Glassblowing, Art 101, and Portfolio Resumé at TCC, and Foundational Concepts and 3D Design at ODU.
In addition to teaching classes and running For All Handkind, Kim is currently working on a pilot program of virtual tours at the Barry Art Museum on campus at ODU.
You can find Kim’s work for sale at For All Handkind, Kitsch, UrbanGlass, Grand Central Arts Center, Drinking Vessels, or Uncommon Goods.
I hope you enjoyed this short behind-the-scenes of glassblowing as much as I did!
Q&A with Owner of Purely Elderberry & Wellness
I recently had the opportunity to take product photos for Perry O’Rourke and wanted to introduce her with a Q & A! Perry is an entrepreneur, mom and owner of Purely Elderberry and Wellness, where she makes delicious elderberry syrup and teas.
How did the idea for your business come about?
The idea for Purely came about when my son turned one. His sweet little immune system was not great and I worked very hard to help him get adequate nutrients to stay healthy. Then we started using my homemade Elderberry and it completely transformed our lives. My son was not catching colds as often and was able to sleep through the night without a stuffy nose. I knew it was helping him and I knew other mothers needed this. So I started sharing with other moms and things just took off.
One thing you’ve learned this year?
I’ve learned so much this year. I’d say the most important thing I’ve learned is to put my marriage first. I was putting my son and business first, of course these two are incredibly important but I’ve learned when I put my marriage up there with as important as my son and business I’m the most successful.
What inspires you?
There is so much that inspires me. I’m inspired by the healing journey I see so many people choosing these days. To get healthy and stay healthy. Choosing to live and not just survive. Choosing to use holistic approaches instead of conventional. That is inspiring to me. I’m inspired by other women entrepreneurs that have families and are still getting it done and being successful. I’m inspired by healthy marriages and friendships. I’m inspired by people who keep their peace when everything seems to be thrown at them.
If you could give yourself advice when you started your business what would it have been?
Pace yourself. I’m very thankful for my start and how quickly things grew and succeeded. I’m so thankful. I would have just paced myself and hired my team sooner than I did. It was just me for a while. Then my husband said I needed to hire someone, so we did! And I’m so thankful for her.
How do you relax after a stressful day?
I try not to have stressful days anymore. I work hard to stay calm and focused by drinking a lot of water, one cup of green tea and keeping a balanced diet. Stress can cause a lot of health issues. So I take CBD and certain vitamins, minerals and supplements to help my body stay in a peaceful state. If a stressful moment sneaks up on me I will use calming essential oils and sit in my portable sauna for 30 minutes to sweat and read some scriptures to help.
Are there any tools you use that help you in your business?
Emily has been a wonderful resource and tool for Purely. I have a beautiful website because of her and I know my business runs better because of her help and expertise.
Any new products or exciting things in the works for Purely Elderberry? Or future dream?
Purely will be announcing new products this winter! We will have our first full line of nourishing Teas. I’ve always loved tea, and I’ve always been a green tea drinker. There are so many benefits to drinking tea or sipping on it through out the day. It’s filled with minerals and nutrients that our body needs. I’m excited to share this line.
My future dream is to have Purely Elderberry and Wellness in every Whole Foods, MOMs Organic Market, and Natural Food Store across America! I know how much it has helped our family and the many families that have purchased, so I’d like to grow and help millions.
You can learn more about Perry and order her delicious products at www.purelyelderberrywellness.com or by following her on social media at @purelyelderberry.
How Could You Be Misunderstood?
What I’ve learned from asking interviewee’s “what are your three biggest weaknesses?”.
What I’ve Learned From Asking Interviewees “What Are Your Biggest Weaknesses?”
I recently read an article that featured Stacey Valy Panayiotou, the senior vice president of global talent and development at Coca-Cola. She shared that her favorite interview questions were “How could you be misunderstood?” and “How can people get the wrong impression of you, and what do you do about that perception?”. I liked her alternative to the age-old interview question “What is your biggest weakness?”.
While conducting job interviews, I have asked dozens of individuals what their “three biggest weaknesses” were. I typically received one of three types of answers:
Spinning a strength into a weakness.
I’m sorry, but saying you “work too hard” is a cop-out answer.
“I can’t think of any.”
If, after sharing a weakness of my own, the interviewee still couldn’t pinpoint a weakness, I would tell them I don’t hire anyone without weaknesses. Because we ALL have weaknesses and what matters to me is that you’re aware and working on them.
An honest, articulate, self-aware answer.
This was the minority of individuals I’ve interviewed but it was always refreshing to hear. There were the few who shared startling honest weaknesses which were red flags for hiring (you can work on your theft problem elsewhere) but, for the most part, their honesty spoke to their credit.
I’ve learned that sometimes asking this question proved fruitful; however, it was often too flat and generic. So I adopted Panayiotou’s questions into my interview process as they are less intimidating for the interviewee. Her questions bring in a dualistic dynamic by accounting for not only the individual but how self-aware they are towards how their actions are perceived.
While this is technically an interview question, I think it’s good for everyone to ask themselves this question. I don’t know about you, but I don’t want to wait until I’m prepping for a job interview to figure out how I could be misunderstood. Unsure where to start? Get input from those around you — family, friends, coworkers. Learning how you are perceived can reduce frustration for you and the people around you…and we all want that!
Checklist for Launching a Squarespace Website
Looking to DIY a Squarespace website? Stressed you’ll miss a step? I’ve created a simple checklist to give my clients before we start their website design and thought it would helpful to share with you!
Looking to DIY a Squarespace website? Stressed you’ll miss a step? I’ve created a simple checklist for use with my clients and thought it would helpful to share with you!
Generally, the goal for a website is to create a visually appealing and easy-to-navigate website to promote or sell your offerings, share business information + content, and grow your email list. Keep in mind your big picture goals and future user experience during every step of building your website.
Website Checklist
TECH
Sign up for Squarespace trial and choose template
Link domain name, business email, and other business information
Sign up for a e-mailing service (Flodesk, Mailchimp, Squarespace, etc.) and connect to website.
Create a Stripe, or Paypal account to process payments
Consider adding a chat box service like Pure Chat to website
SITE ORGANIZATION
Create website outline of what you want included on website
Outline user journey
Write content (i.e. about, home, services / products / work with me, blog (categories and tags), contact, careers, pick up locations, ordering, FAQ)
Gather images
Organize navigation
Build out pages
SEO
Connect Google Analytics
Write page descriptions
Turn on SSL
Turn on AMP
Check Google Page Speed insight
Install Moz Bar in Chrome
Install Google Search Console
MARKETING
Create newsletter opt-in freebie
Implement strategic newsletter sign-ups across site
Connect social media accounts
Turn on share buttons
Include trust signals (i.e. testimonials, etc)
LAUNCH
Test on mobile
Test links
Activate Squarespace subscription
Promote!
Have questions related to building a Squarespace website? Comment below and I’ll do my best to answer you!